rafael Things Sofia and Rafael live fascinate me ... I can not stop now .... I read in the face a article that spoke of studies conducted to determine whether people are happier with or without children gave me the truth ... laugh ... would first have to define happiness .... in these times is so different ... and so ... the final material is easy to blame others for our mistakes, our faults and our problems .. . the children often come in handy for that ... and then say that we are unhappy because of him is still much better ...
The children we face, we face ... look at reality through our eyes, our attitudes, our life itself ... people who choose to spend a little time with their children ... preferring to work and other circumstances ... is to understand ... of course being with them can be unhappy ... by requiring, for that question ... why do you think of situations that do not want children ... not evade ... ... adults are facing real good to avoid ... we have created in the course of our lives an endless number of mechanisms to not look at reality ... the kids look and remind us ALL ... TIME .... the beautiful and the ugly ... what love and it hurts ... and in most cases are our mirror ... a mirror in which we look over our virtues our shortcomings. .. so we avoid them ... so do not give them time ... or when we are with them irritate us, annoy us ... make us unhappy ... who is happy with someone who faces the reality that you do not like??
Thus I agree with the research ... ADULTS ARE HAPPIEST WHEN NOT HAVE CHILDREN ... that can evade reality without a thousand ways .... that no one will question, or remind you all ... A SON helps you look at yourself ... your role as father is not necessarily a job well or poorly paid ... is a circumstance in your life requires you .. . who will ask ... and gives you ... get your hands on a life ... a be ... and accompany him to provide the best and worst of you .... is not easy ... the task is more complicated ... and more demanding ... therefore it is not easy to deal with it ... and it's true ... everybody wants to be happy ... no one wants the pain of a loss, the requirement of a claim ... a disease ... economic pressure .... or a sense of guilt ....
parents to be educated by example ... with our own existence ... not valid ... the speeches Words are blown away .... and if the speeches with no support acts ... even worse ... it is amazing to hear the children call adults LIARS ... "Say one thing and do another "...... who is happy after that?? just someone who wants to be better ... just someone who loves self-introspection ... and .... just someone to look in the eyes of their children more accurate questions of life ...
And what of the fears?? deepest fears grow .... and when are parents who want to be afraid?? Who wants to win and face their fears ...????
Sofia a few days ago told me: "Yummy .... SMELL ME MAMA SMELL YOUR LOVE ... WHEN YOU'RE NOT IN THE HOUSE PUT YOUR PAJAMAS ME UP ON YOUR SKIN AND I FEEL MY SMELL SO ... RICO ... AND WHEN I FEEL THAT THESE ARE NOT ME ..."... smiled and cried ... I could not help it .... I remember it was exactly what happened to me with my mother ... and my father also. .. its smells impregnated garments ... and I loved sofia comments reminded me of something my father always told me ... that he loved my smell ... it smelled like a baby ... that despite being an adult I was always smell the same ... and liked .... so when Sofia told me I smell you ... I was very moved ecantaba
... Love that is odorless ... true .... and smells bring back memories not only us ... we underlying security, trust and warmth .... Babies and children are very well developed sense of smell .... not only a matter of physical survival but emotional .... ....
remember the last days of my father ... the smell was too much medication ... particular ... and the smell of your skin impregnated hospital ... but now that is not remember her perfume ... Steffano ... Vasselin and the hair used for so many years .... but above all their love ....
do not know if my father was happier without children .... the truth ... his life made me feel so loved, so loved ... so special ... I assume that if he was happy ....
I could say I'm not so happy now circumstances of life ... but for my children ... no ... they are so happy ... they struggle to live by them every day ... I have projects ... plans and dreams .... My concept of happiness is so simple .... I have not physically all that many want ... but emotionally I feel complete ... and that I owe to SOFIA AND RAFAEL ... that smell ... smell of rich pure love ....
A KISS TO ALL ...